Finding Serenity

For some reason it seems over the past few months I have had some female friends who are dealing with either married men or men in a relationship. Now the two I have in mind are BEAUTIFUL women - and very self sufficient. These relationships are not based on money at all. Now of course I felt the need to ask them why- what is the attraction? How comfortable knowing that you are sharing a man? Each woman started out by explaining how much this situation benefited her -how she did not have to worry about him- she could continue to see other people etc. But as the relationship progressed you could see that it was not as fun as they made it out to be- you would see them texting them constantly or starting arguments over nothing. Whenever I brought up the fact that they were in a relationship - there was always a story about how horrible their wife was or how they wished they could leave her for some reason or another. I could hardly believe my ears- I mean all you have to do is watch a few day time talk shows for you to realize that you are being taken advantage of because he would leave her if he really wanted to. Not only being taken advantage of emotionally but how about the risks physically- if a man is sleeping with two women there have to be risks. What is the attraction to a man who posses no character? Or to beginning a relationship based on deceit- What makes a woman become comfortable with sharing a man? And how does she sleep at night knowing she is breaking up a family? When does character become more important than a good time?

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